Dolce Vita Bloggers: A Perfect Italian Day

A perfect Italian day? Well, that could mean different things to different people.

But when I think back to the countless days I’ve spent here in Italy, the “perfect” days have always ended up being days that you just couldn’t plan. They are full of random spontaneous moments that swoop you around from one memorable story to another.

And thankfully, Italy seems to be one of those places where it’s almost guaranteed that something random and wonderful will happen. But, we can’t always wake up hoping for one of those days. You see, we also have an important role in bringing these perfect days into fruition.

It’s all a matter of perception!  You can make the most of just about any day with the right attitude and some of the simplest things.

Springtime is glorious, especially in southern Italy.

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Unlatch the hinge of the floor to ceiling wooden shutters and welcome this perfect day, Swing those  shutters wide open, both arms stretched out, embracing this magnificent day and allowing the bright morning sun to wash over you.

Head to the local bar and kick start your morning. The rush of caffeine along with the buzzing of locals catching up on the latest gossip, two businessmen arguing over who is offering the coffee this morning as they pass a 10 euro back and forth each affirming how offended they will be if they don’t accept the offer. The soundtrack of the bar is like no other – the clink and clank of small tiny silver spoons on saucers, the clicks and whir of the barista as he flawless prepares the flow of orders as they trickle in.  The effortless dance as that same barista swirls around presenting you with a tiny cup of adrenaline that will keep you going regardless of what the day has in store.

Spring weather is lovely, just warm enough that you don’t need to weigh yourself down with scarves hats and heavy sweaters. Instead you grab your sunglasses and walk along the lively buzzing streets. Children shuffling around a small courtyard playing football, a group of teenagers laughing or listening to music on their mobile phones, young lovers tucked away in secluded corners stealing kisses embracing each other tightly that they almost seem to become one.

Depending on the time of day, you can smell the fresh cornetti or pizza wafting out of the numerous cafes and restaurants along the way.

The sun shines bright, your surrounded by blue skies, the absence of clouds letting you to feel the warmth of the sun caress your face, cheeks and whole body.

You aren’t the only one enjoying this magnificent day. A group of old men sitting on a bench in the local square, dressed to the nines with a perfectly pressed button up shirt, regardless of the season. As you draw closer you can here them passionately discussing their ideas on football, politics or whatever is splashed on the front cover of their morning paper. The Italians exude passion in everything they do and analyzing the results of last’s night game rank high on the list today.

The day slowly turns to evening, and you are thankful for the longer days. As you wander around the city, no cares or worries, you hear a familiar voice – “ehi”. You’ve bumped into some friends, and after exchanges of ciaos and baci, you decide an aperitivo would be perfect.

Sitting on a patio, with the hustle and bustle of the city surrounding you, the Italian chatter of your friends and the perfect spot to watch the scenes unfold – just like that one movie you’ve seen a hundred times, but it doesn’t matter because you’d watch it a hundred more.

You sip your Aperol spritz, it’s colour as vibrant as its taste – which fits perfect with the animated conversations that float in and out as people pass by.  What is it about the Italian language that is so mesmerizing?

The evening is slowly slipping to night, but you aren’t ready to bid adieu to this perfect day – perhaps you make your way to another restaurant or cocktail lounge. Or maybe, you get in the car and head to the seaside to catch the last glimpse of this perfect day as the sun sets leaving you humbled and thankful that life can be so magical!

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A perfect day in Italy doesn’t have to be extravagant. There is so much perfection in every second of the day that if you let yourself take the time and absorb the surroundings, you’ll see that any day can be a perfect day if you embrace it with the right attitude.

Thanks once again  to our wonderful  Dolce Vita Blogger hosts – Kelly of Italian At Heart, Jasmine of Questa Dolce Vita and Kristie of Mamma Prada for organizing this great link up!

If you haven’t already read my past contributions to the Dolce Vita Blogger Link Up, you can find them here!

And, don’t forget, you can check out the other bloggers taking part in this month’s blog link up by clicking on the image below!

Dolce Vita Bloggers

What is your idea of a perfect Italian day? Share your ideas with me in the comments below! 

  1. Lucy At Home

    May 10, 2018 at 10:57 am

    Oh I love the buzz that you have created in this post – I can picture it all and imagine myself being part of it! And I definitely agree that your attitude to the day has a big impact on your perception and experience of the day – be ready to embrace life and life will come and find you!

    And congratulations because someone loved this post so much, they added it to the BlogCrush linky! Feel free to collect your “I’ve been featured” blog badge 🙂 #blogcrush

    1. LuLu

      May 12, 2018 at 8:25 am

      Thank you! 🙂 I completely agree, be positive and live your best life! 🙂

  2. Bellissimamma Carmela

    May 4, 2018 at 4:05 pm

    You’re my #BlogCrush for this week! I added your post to the Lucy At Home Linkup. It can be found at https://lucyathome.co.uk/blogcrush/blogcrush-week-64/
    I love reading about your Italian adventures and I look forward to visiting the places you have been to!

    1. LuLu

      May 9, 2018 at 11:59 am

      Grazie mille!! I really appreciate it and I hope you have a chance to come down this way! 🙂

  3. Lucy and Kelly

    April 14, 2018 at 3:53 pm

    Really loved reading this post and agree 100%. Just being in Italy and taking in all it’s beauty can be enough to make the day perfect, especially in the south! 🙂
    Lucy and Kelly xx
    http://www.theblossomtwins.com

    1. LuLu

      April 15, 2018 at 3:09 pm

      Glad you enjoyed it! 🙂 xoxo

  4. Image Earth Travel

    April 11, 2018 at 4:32 pm

    Enjoyed this post and yes, it is a perfect day in Italy!

    1. LuLu

      April 12, 2018 at 8:18 am

      Thanks so much! 🙂

  5. Kelly

    April 11, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    Ciao LuLu! I agree wholeheartedly that the most perfect days are ones you usually can’t plan and that’s it’s all a matter of perception! When I think back to one of my most perfect days in Italy, it was nothing special or out of the ordinary. In fact, nothing had gone according to plan! But I think what made it so special was the absence of resistance, and discovering new things! So glad you joined us for #DolceVitaBloggers <3

    1. LuLu

      April 12, 2018 at 8:18 am

      It’s true! I’m learning to let go of the idea that I need to plan everything and things need to unfold a certain way. It’s not easy for me but it’s something I’m working on. Those randomly perfect days are exactly what’s needed to remember that anything can happen and it doesn’t have to be a bad thing! 🙂

  6. KareninCalabria

    April 10, 2018 at 8:29 pm

    So true with perspective! That’s something I always need to remind myself of, and when there are a few spring flowers, delicious pastries and amiable people, well, there it is.

    1. LuLu

      April 12, 2018 at 8:15 am

      I’m grateful that I still have moments when I snap out of “zombie” mode and see the glorious mountains that border the city, or the blossoms sprouting on the trees. I’m getting better at learning to appreciate these things daily. 🙂

  7. Tony Staffaroni

    April 10, 2018 at 12:46 pm

    Sign me up!! That would indeed be a perfect day, and reading this is a reminder of why I miss Italy and the wonderful lifestyle so much and why I cannot wait to return! Grazie. 🙂

    1. LuLu

      April 12, 2018 at 8:13 am

      I’m glad you liked it! Hope you are able to get back to Italy soon! 🙂

  8. Kristie

    April 10, 2018 at 11:13 am

    This is so lovely! I wrote about the spontaneity of Italy as well! It seems to just be the way to experience it at its best! Enjoy and go with the flow! X

    1. LuLu

      April 12, 2018 at 8:09 am

      Thanks! The spontaneity of the people and the situations here are what make for some really interesting adventures and stories to tell friends and family. 🙂

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